Are you a person that checks labels? Maybe you check the
label when shopping for clothes. It irritates me when I grab an item of
clothing and it’s mislabeled (stupid slim fit!). Maybe you check food labels to
be sure that your consumption doesn’t send you into anaphylactic shock. My
brother once ate a bowl of fruit (note: he is allergic to most fruit) and his
entire face swelled up like the scene from the movie Hitch starring Will Smith.
It was a pretty scary situation but mostly because he looked like a warthog and
he was scaring the children nearby and not because he was struggling to breath
(that was only slightly scary).
Labels can be
really irritating sometimes too. Especially when they’re made from that
scratchy burlap sack material. It shocks me to see that there are still some
clothes that have what seems like a giant Costco receipt on the inside of your
shirt. Thank goodness for tag less clothing! Although there are times when labels
are annoying, they can certainly serve us well with helpful and often necessary
information. They sort of serve as an identity marker or a way in which we can
distinguish its contents or care.
Identity is a
funny thing when it comes to people. We have an identity that distinguishes
every human being via DNA or fingerprints, but then we have identities that are
much more collective and form the basis of our self-concept (a collection of
gender identity, sexuality, racial identity, academic performance, etc). But as
much as we are aware of how we perceive ourselves we are not always aware of
how God sees us.
Romans 8:15-17
reminds those who have come to a belief or faith in God that there are several important
things that need to be repeated. The passage says that we are adopted as
children of God, and if we’re children then we are heirs. That means we in are
inheritors. But inheritors of what? Christ’s pain but also His beauty and
splendor. Meaning, we share not only the pain He went through, but we share the
pain we will have to go through (and we’re probably really familiar with our
struggles). But it doesn’t end there. The passages reads that we will also
share in His glory or beauty or splendor. Meaning, that we no longer need to
identify ourselves by our mistakes or wrongdoings. We no longer need to
identity ourselves by our failure and addiction. We no longer need to identify
ourselves with inadequacy or devoid of any worth. God calls us His children. He
gives us a new identity. An identity in Christ as sons and daughters.
I kind of see it
like this: I have two children. The moment I found out we were going to have
them my heart leapt with joy. As I held them each as they were ushered into
this world I realized that no words could ever describe the way that I felt in
that moment. I knew right then and there that I would do anything for them. I
knew I would give my life for them, but I also knew I would do whatever it
takes to protect theirs as well (even if it meant me taking some fools out!).
What’s laughable
now is that these kids had done nothing to earn my love. In fact, they still
haven’t done anything that would warrant the love I have for them. If they’ve
done anything it’s give me reason to question my love for them (which I haven’t
by the way). They’ve cost me money, sleep, patience, time, money, and sleep.
They bring nothing to the table in regards to pulling their weight in our
household (although the oldest is pulling weeds now so there’s that). They
haven’t purchased a single gift without the help of their mother and yet my
love has never wavered. Why do you think that is? Well, I have no other reason
that I can come up with other than the fact that they are simply mine. They are
special to me no matter if no one else feels the way I do. They brought me
tears of joy when before I met them and they bring me tears of joy when I think
of them now. They don’t know this yet, but the day they became my children I
gave them an identity. They became my children. They became my gifts that I
would always love and always protect. Their value to me is priceless. It’s
really unbelievable to me that I feel the way I do about them. What’s
fascinating about this entire experience is that it’s given me perspective, I
believe, on how God sees and feels about me. I know it is only a glimpse, but
it is definitely a glorious one that I need to be reminded of time and time
again.
My identity, your
identity, our identity is not only a collection of DNA, fingerprints, or beliefs about ourselves, but more importantly it’s the way God sees and feels
about us. The only label we need to check is the one God places on us. We are
His children and we belong to Him. We are special to Him so much so that He
gave His life for us. He will fight for us to protect us because we are
priceless to Him.
I don’t know
about you, but I need to hear that. Not because I doubt His love for me all
these years, but because I forget. Maybe you’ve forgotten who you are. I pray
you see the love of God that’s been lavished on you and may you be found not in
the collection of what you believe about yourself, but in the God who loves you
and has loved you long before you were born.